Okwangoku, kukho zonke iintlobouzipho lomatshini wecrane emarikeni, kuzo zonke iindawo ezineevenkile ezinkulu, iicinema, iivenkile ezinkulu nezitrato zabahamba ngeenyawo.Isixhobo esilula kangaka sokuzonwabisa sitsala njani eli qela labantu inyathelo ngenyathelo?Yintoni imfihlo ngokwasengqondweni emva kwalo mtsalane umangalisayo?
01. Ukuzonwabisa okuqhekezayo kukulungele ngakumbi iimfuno zemihla ngemihla
Inkqubo "yomlutha omncinci" yinkqubo yokusetyenziswa kakhulu kwezixhobo zokuqwalasela, ezinceda nje abantu ukuba bakhulule uxinzelelo kunye nokulawula iimvakalelo zabo, ngoko ke nabantu abadala abayi kunqaba "ukubamba abambalwa" ngamaxesha athile.Esinye isizathu esibalulekileyo sokuthandwa kweuzipho lomatshini wecrane luphawu lwayo “lolonwabo oluqhekekayo”.
Kukho izinto ezininzi zolu phawu: enye "yinqanaba eliphantsi loqoqosho kunye neendleko zexesha", kwaye enye "izinga eliphezulu loqhagamshelwano kwindawo yokuphumla".Indawo apho iuzipho lomatshini wecrane ibekwe yona ngokwayo indawo yokuzonwabisa kunye nokutya.Okwesithathu "uncedo kunye nokuzonwabisa".Nangona abanye abantu begxile ekubambeni izakhono zoonodoli, banokudlala ngaphandle kwezakhono.Umsebenzi olula kunye nomoya ozele ubumsulwa kunye nolonwabo kwandisa ngakumbi intatho-nxaxheba yabantu.
02. Umlutha omncinci obangelwa yi-dopamine
Musa ukuyijongela phantsiuzipho lomatshini wecrane.Xa abantu bephosa iingqekembe ezimbalwa kwiuzipho lomatshini wecrane, balindele ukubamba unodoli abamfunayo.Uvuyo oluziswa ngolo lindelo kunye nemincili kulula kakhulu.Ukukhobokisa.
Ukuba unodoli ubanjwe ngempumelelo, isekethe yengqondo iya kukhupha i-dopamine ukuzisa iimvakalelo ezimnandi, kodwa ukuba ayibanjwanga, inqanaba le-dopamine liya kuhla kakhulu, lizise imvakalelo "yokudana".Ngeli xesha, ukuze baphinde baphucule amava, abantu bahlala bebamba kwaye babambe kwakhona, kwaye inkqubo inika umdla.Nokuba uyazi ukuba ithuba lokubamba unodoli lincinci kakhulu kunokusilela, kusenzima ukuncama isilingo "sexesha elinye".
Okukhona kusenziwa iinzame, kokukhona iindleko zokutshona zisiba nkulu, kwaye kokukhona kuba nzima ukuba abantu bazikhuphe, nto leyo ebangela ukuba kuhendeke ngakumbi ukukhupha ingqekembe yemali kwaye badlale amaxesha ambalwa ngakumbi.
03. Ukunciphisa ukukhusela abanye kunye nokunciphisa umgama wengqondo
Kukho enye into enomdla malunga nokubamba oonodoli: izibini eziselula zikholisa ukubamba oonodoli ngaphezu kwabantwana kwaye zinike oonodoli omnye komnye, kwaye kwanabaqolileyo, abantu abadala abazimiseleyo badla ngokungabi nazintloni zokubamba oonodoli, kwaye bade bavuyele ukunxibelelana Bonisa ukuphanga kwiwebhu.
Olu lunxibelelwano olukhuselayo oluqhutywa yingqondo.Alinakuphikiswa ukuba isenzo "sokubamba oonodoli" ngokwaso, inkqubo yokugxila ekubambeni oonodoli, kunye nemifanekiso yeedodoli ezahlukeneyo zonke "zisisimumu kwaye zintle", kwaye olu hlobo "lobuhle obungenasiphelo" busondele ngakumbi ngokwengqondo. ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu.Isixhobo esingabonakaliyo somgama.Olu dluliselo kunye namazwi, nokuba ngamabomu okanye akunjalo, kunciphisa ukukhusela abanye, kwaye kwangaxeshanye, bomeleza ukuzikhusela.Ubuhle babo bufanelekile ukuqonda.
Ixesha lokuposa: Jan-10-2022